“I’ve been in a caring role for my husband for two years, but more than ever since he lost his eyesight in one eye following an infection. He also has macular degeneration in his good eye, so his overall eyesight is poor. 

“I spend much time dealing with his correspondence and cleaning up mishaps that he has no idea have happened.  

“The main challenge I’ve found has been keeping up with the constant stream of things that need attention, such as his banking, credit payments, GP calls and podiatry referrals. He has also become bitter about his new experiences and loss of his previous abilities, which has had quite a negative impact on us. 

“Boredom has, I’m sure, contributed to his bitterness, and has shown me a different side to his personality unfortunately. I’m looking into purchasing larger games for us to take part in from RNIB shop, as playing Scrabble or cards is no longer of any use.  

“I’ve reached out to Carers Support during the troublesome times and these people have been a godsend when I’ve not known where to turn.  

“To keep going, I remember that there is relief from the problems and hostility. 

“It’s then I see the man that I married once again and can focus on the happier times that we shared together.  

“I would love to know what more can be done to occupy a partially sighted man, who used to be very active - he drove a car, played indoor games, did DIY. What do blind people do to relieve their boredom? I am at a loss to know what I can do.”